How To Attract Men

GIRLS, have you been sitting there waiting too long for Mr. Right to come along? It's about time you got up and done something about it. But let me reveal a few pointers. It's not that you haven't found your match yet... it's probably because you have been focusing on it too much and wondering why your knight in shining armour hasnt swept you off your feet yet... guys don't run out of supply and sure, there are dozens of potential Mr. Rights.. so its all a matter of having the right chemistry to attract the opposite sex.

The number one reason guys and girls have about lack of dating is fear of rejection. "I don't really look that good." Or "Girls don't like me." are quick replies defensively blurted out when asked why they have been single for a long time. Some even say "It's my choice." and that could be partly true.. but nobody wants to live alone and miserable...we are social beings and we need life partners... and the truth is.. you arent going to attract anyone whilst you sit at home worrying.. keeping the avenues of work & play open invites opportunities.. remember fearing rejection is only a thought.. and we have the power to change our thoughts.. by being accepting, positive and staying true to ourselves.. i believe there is a special someone for all of us.. .

Guys are like girls... they are unlikely to come your way when you don't look interested... and the thing is, they may mistake women's action of shying away as "not interested" when she really means "You have to make the first move." So, get out of your shell and flaunt yourself... and if the guy you like doesn't look your way, big deal.. it's not the end of the world.. he probably does not deserve you.

So, girls you should consider being proactive about it....while this may be an interesting experiment for those who never tried it, I advise you to not overdo it... guys still stick to that machismo image and they definitely want some challenge... so play a lil hard to get.. be a lil flirty.. smile and have fun.. if you are friendly and easy to get along with, guys are drawn to you... once they know that you are open to them, they will step up if they are interested with you too. If not, then, you'd still enjoy having conversations with him as a friend.

Look good not just for him but for yourself. Guys adore women who are comfortable in their own skin. He will admire you for your confidence, your personal style and movements as much as his scent, charm and boyish ways sweep you off your feet... so, do a little work and pamper yourself... wear clothes that highlight your best features and complement your skin.. a favourite outfit of mine in the summertime is jeans with an elegant camisole.. and strappy sandals.. just perfect for a relaxing casual outing to the beach or the movies.. if you have someone in mind, know his favorite perfume and wear it.. your scent is your trademark.. a guy is usually going to remember you even weeks later by what you smelt like..

Some girls do research about his hobbies and interest and arm themselves by knowing a little about each. You don't have to be an expert, just understand what he's talking about.... if you understand him, you can join into his conversation and state your opinions about it... a guy is impressed with a woman who can listen and respond to what he has to say.

There are some men who prefer intelligent women or someone who could carry a good conversation of just about anything... while it is true that the male species initially gets attracted to physical looks, things might change 360 degrees when she opens her mouth... so, make sure you don't have him turning away from you once you do... unless if you're looking for a one night stand then that's something you don't have to worry.... but if you're looking for a potential relationship then, you have to project yourself more than just a beauty.. sound and act self-reliant.... don't sound like a rip off... let him know that you too can take charge if you want to.

So, you have worked on your looks, your style, your social skills and have tightened a few screws in your brain - you're almost perfect... now, have fun and be adventurous as you move on everyday.... indulge yourself in activities that make you shine.... get out of your comfort zone and live life to the fullest.... in no time, you will be perceived as an easy going, fun, adventurous, independent woman. Now, that's a package every guy will die for!